So last week I wrote about (there is an .xls and pdf link to the file there as well if you’d like to have it for yourself) how we were going to create a chore charts for Crash and Bang. Well we did. Now we have a week under our belt. How has it gone so far?
We decided on a flat rate for each job done instead a flat rate per day. Twenty-five cents per chore. Piece work. So how much did they earn last week? Crash made a grand total of $2.25. Bang earned himself $1.75. They were excited to be paid. I don’t know if it will be enough incentive though. It was like teaching math to a mule.
I explained to Crash that he would be doing chores no matter how big of a fight he put up. He could either do the chores willingly and get paid for them or he could fight and argue with us, still have to do the chores but without pay. It was his choice.
At one point this week, when I instructed him to clean his room, he tried not to. So I sat his bed and told him what to pick up and where to put it. Then he vacuumed his room.
“None of my friends have to do chores” he tried to tell me. My response was simple.
“It’s because I’m not their dad.”
“But I don’t want to clean.”
“Me, either, bud. But we have to and mom and I really need your help.”
“But I hate cleaning.”
“There are far worse things that could be happening instead of cleaning. Would you rather clean the whole house? No? Then clean the few things I ask you to.”
Bang is just the opposite when his big brother isn’t around. He’ll vacuum out the couch or the door mats. He’ll help empty the dishwasher. He’ll help load it. He’ll help me with laundry. He’ll take out the garbage and recycling. When Crash isn’t around. Otherwise he adopts the same attitude.
But there is payment and they now know they’ll be paid because they got their money yesterday. Perhaps we’ll get a roll of quarters from the bank and they can be paid each day. Then perhaps they’ll be more willing and they’ll be able to see their earnings immediately. Then later we can switch back to weekly payments. Perhaps we’ll switch to a glass jar for a piggy bank so they can watch their earnings add up.
To be continued…
I’ll give you another update next Monday to let you know if this week goes any differently.
Clever ideas – congrats on getting them to cooperate in the end. 🙂
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It took A LOT to get the 8 year old to cooperate. I had to sit there and instruct him. Perhaps cleaning has a learning curve?
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Most things do! 😀
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Sounds like a great plan. I think for some kids, though, it will always take LOTS of motivation! My son complained about doing chores for most of his life. It wasn’t until he started “getting paid” with a tankful of gas for his car that we finally hit on the right form of motivation! Good luck this week.
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LOL Everyone has a price. We just need to find it. Perhaps we’ll switch to minecraft time. 15 minutes per chore?
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I have a couple of nephews that that would surely work on!!
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The fact that kids are incentive-driven is a godsend. Sometimes, it’s the only way that I can keep from having to clean the toys out of the living room myself.
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I’m incentive driven too. I’ll totally work for the money!
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Haha, that’s little quote at the end made me chuckle! Love the updates and sounds like it’s moving along nicely! Great job all around.
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It was tough, but I think it will eventually work out. May take a month, but once they realize there’s no other option, they’ll surrender to us 🙂
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Love the quote and the clever ideas.
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Thanks! Here’s to hoping they work…
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I’m glad that has helped!
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I think we’re moving in the right direction. Still som things to iron out, but it has helped.
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Sounds like it’s working out! Bang is such a role model there! 50% hit-rate is a good start. Piggy banks could work well. 🙂
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He had fewer chores last week and that’s why he earned a bit less. So far this week, he’s in the lead 🙂
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Go boys! Do more chores and suck your dad dry!!! 😀
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Bang would. Crash not so much. There is a salary cap to prevent the bank from going bust 🙂
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With our currency going where it is compared to the dollar…would you mind if I offered my service at the stated rate per chore?
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Hahahaha. Mon over, you will be paid per chore at the going rate. I’ll add you to the chart. Just a heads up, the kids do have a salary cap (not that they’ll ever reach it) to protect us from paying too much.
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Ok, when do I start?
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Tomorrow.
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Well, I’ve just checked my diary and I’m kinda busy. Won’t be able to clean up the house.
I might be able to fit cleaning your cellar. Only if you have one and only if it’s filled with red wine.
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Dang. We do have a basement. No cellar. No wine in it either. Just lots and lots of toys.
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I’m busy.
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